If You Can't Take the Heat: Tales of Food, Feminism, and Fury

If You Can't Take the Heat: Tales of Food, Feminism, and Fury

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  • Author:Geraldine DeRuiter
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Summary

From the James Beard Award–winning blogger behind The Everywhereist come hilarious, searing essays on how food and cooking stoke the flames of her feminism。

When celebrity chef Mario Batali sent out an apology letter for the sexual harassment allegations made against him, he had the gall to include a recipe—for cinnamon rolls, of all things。 Geraldine DeRuiter decided to make the recipe, making food journalism history along with it。 Her subsequent essay, with its scathing commentary about the pervasiveness of misogyny in the food world, would be read millions of times, lauded by industry luminaries from Martha Stewart to The New York Times restaurant critic Pete Wells—and it would land DeRuiter in the middle of a media firestorm。 She found herself on the receiving end of dozens of threats when all she wanted to do was make something to eat (and okay, maybe also take down the patriarchy)。

In If You Can’t Take the Heat, DeRuiter shares stories about her shockingly true, painfully funny (and sometimes just painful) adventures in gastronomy。 We’ll learn how she finally got a grip on her debilitating anxiety by emergency meal–planning for the apocalypse。 (“You are probably deeply worried that in times of desperation I would eat your pets。 And yes, I absolutely would。”) Or how she learned to embrace her hanger。 (“Because women can be a lot of things, but we can’t be angry。 Or president, apparently。”) And how she inadvertently caused another international incident with a negative restaurant review。 (She made it on to the homepage of The New York Times’s website! And got more death threats!)

Deliciously insightful and bitingly clever, If You Can’t Take the Heat is a fresh look at food and feminism from one of the culinary world’s sharpest voices。

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Reviews

Federica Mandel

This was disappointing。 I found the way she described treating her husband extremely triggering。 Not something I would have minded in fiction, but I definitely was not expecting to run into this kind of toxicity in this book。 Some parts made me laugh but a lot of it read like it was out of r/NotLikeOtherGilrs or r/im14andthisisdeep

Adam

Seriously can't wait for this book! Seriously can't wait for this book! 。。。more

Lolo

Thank you for getting me out of my reading slump。 I was laughing out loud at times。 10/10 would recommend。

Rennie

Rounding up a bit as some essays were better than others but this totally deserves it。 It was so unexpectedly moving。

Mindy

This book is *chef’s kiss* perfection。 Geraldine is generous and insightful。 And she’s so brave to exist as a woman with—gasp—opinions on the internet。 I loved reading her personal stories, some I’d heard before in some form and others completely new to me。 While learning about Geraldine’s life in food, I was flooded with my own long forgotten food memories。 This book helped me to appreciate all the ways in which our most meaningful relationships—with our families, our friends, our communities, This book is *chef’s kiss* perfection。 Geraldine is generous and insightful。 And she’s so brave to exist as a woman with—gasp—opinions on the internet。 I loved reading her personal stories, some I’d heard before in some form and others completely new to me。 While learning about Geraldine’s life in food, I was flooded with my own long forgotten food memories。 This book helped me to appreciate all the ways in which our most meaningful relationships—with our families, our friends, our communities, and ourselves—are wrapped up in food。 I’m so glad to have gotten my hands on an advance reader’s copy。 My only teeny tiny quibble with this book is that it doesn’t come with a box of homemade baked goods。 But maybe the hard copy does, which is only one of the reasons I look forward to reading this again when it hits the shelves in a few months。 。。。more

Deanna

ARC courtesy of Crown Publishing。 Before reading this book I had no idea who Geraldine DeRuiter was。 I now know she is a liberal feminist who unapologetically tells the truth about being a woman in the 21st century and I am here for it through every page。 I don’t believe I have ever laughed out loud this much while reading a book。 Her candor is refreshing and an absolute riot。 It felt wonderful to have so many of my thoughts validated through Geraldine’s voice。

Margaret Schoen

This is a review of an ARC from Edelweiss。DeRuiter rose to viral Internet fame after writing a James Beard award-winning takedown of Mario Batali's sexual harassment apology letter, which inexplicably included a recipe for (bad) cinnamon rolls。 A hysterically scathing review of a ridiculously pretentious restaurant made international headlines and landed DeRuiter back in the spotlight。This collection of essays includes expansions on those posts, along with smart and funny essays that look at fem This is a review of an ARC from Edelweiss。DeRuiter rose to viral Internet fame after writing a James Beard award-winning takedown of Mario Batali's sexual harassment apology letter, which inexplicably included a recipe for (bad) cinnamon rolls。 A hysterically scathing review of a ridiculously pretentious restaurant made international headlines and landed DeRuiter back in the spotlight。This collection of essays includes expansions on those posts, along with smart and funny essays that look at feminism and life through the lens of food。 Making a long-lost Nesselrode pie for her husband's grandfather turns to a discussion of Proust and how food anchors us in time。 A restaurant closing is intertwined with the loss of a friendship。 The history of beef stroganoff leads to remembrance of her father and the revelation that he was probably a cold war spy。 I devoured it in one sitting。 。。。more

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